Feed Better. Feel Better.®

No Shame. No Blame.
Just help for latching and feeding problems.

Feed Better. Feel Better.®

Real help for
latching and feeding challenges.

Feed Better. Feel Better.®

No Shame. No Blame.
Just answers for your latching and feeding questions.

Feed Better. Feel Better.®

No Shame. No Blame.
Just help for your feeding problems.  

Go Deeper with Expanded Access

New parent getting help with latching and feeding challenges

Live videos. Deeper answers.
More resources to help.

Feeding your baby can feel overwhelming, and it’s even harder when things just aren’t working. Especially when:

  • Your baby doesn’t respond the way people say they will.
  • Latching advice doesn’t work for your body.
  • Support feels judgmental or unhelpful.
  • You want to love feeding time — but right now, you just can't.

It’s no wonder you feel confused, frustrated, and stuck second-guessing everything.

That’s why this blog exists — to give you clear, judgment-free, expert-backed answers when the usual latching advice just isn’t working for your baby, your body, or your situation

And if you want to go deeper, Expanded Access adds real videos, live Q&As, and practical tools that show you what to do and why it works — because feeding your baby shouldn't feel this hard.

 

⭑September Workshop⭑

Solving Shallow Latches

 Thurs. Sept. 25th, 11–12pm ET
Live on Zoom

The library is always growing, with new content added each month based on real problems from members — so what you find inside always reflects the challenges families are facing right now.

 
Deeper Dive Session

Deeper Answers For
Topics That Matter to You

Each month, we go beyond quick tips to give you the details, context, and clarity you need to understand a specific feeding challenge — and feel confident about how to take the next steps.

Participate live, or watch the replay of this or any past Go Deeper session whenever you have the time. 

→ Browse Past Go Deeper Sessions

 
Live Latching Sessions

Live Videos to See What
Latching Really Looks Like

Reading about latching is one thing — watching it happen with real support in real time is completely different. These videos let you see parents with the same struggles get guidance through their feeding challenges.

Watch real babies, real bodies, overcoming real feeding challenges, in real time.

→ Explore Current Latching Sessions

 
Step-by-Step Help Resources

Step-by-Step Help to
Troubleshoot Problems

Inside the library, you’ll find step-by-step tutorials, printable guides, and simple exercises you can use at home, designed to help you troubleshoot specific feeding problems — and build your confidence along the way.

→ See All the Resources to Help

 
 

And Get Live Answers to
Questions Weighing You Down

Mom groups can be amazing when you need comfort — but sometimes, you just want answers from someone with real experience. That’s what these are for.

We meet (most) Tuesdays at 11:00 am EST on Zoom. Come as you are, camera on or off, for whatever feeding issue you need support with.

They’re not individual consults, but they are blame-free, shame-free Q&A sessions where you’ll get real-time answers that give you peace of mind.

Go Deeper →

What families I've helped have to say: 

“In one nursing session I saw such a huge improvement using Avery’s latching techniques! For the first time my baby latched on the right side, opened wider when I engaged her chin, and relaxed more with a simple position change.”
— Sarah Ly

“Over 16 years and 4 babies, I’ve been through every struggle imaginable — and Avery was the first to make me feel seen and confident. The pain disappeared immediately, and it was life-changing. She makes breastfeeding easier and helps moms believe we can do this.”
— Nicole Caron

“At 3AM, desperate from the pain, I found Avery’s Reflexive Latching ebook and website. I finally understood what was happening, the techniques worked right away, and with her support we’re now doing so much better.”
— Nia H

 

Still Have Questions?

Our Go Deeper teaching sessions are always recorded and added to the library. For live Q&As, I don’t record the private discussions to protect your privacy.

Members are always welcome to send me questions, and I’ll record answers for anything that isn’t already in the library — so you can still find the guidance you need even if you can’t attend live.

No — Expanded Access is not a replacement for individual medical or lactation consults.

It’s a library of videos, resources, and live Q&As designed to give you clarity and practical tools you can use right away — helping you feel more confident at home, and get the most out of any consults you choose to have.

New content is added frequently — from recordings of Go Deeper sessions to fresh resources based on real questions parents are asking right now.

You can always see everything that's currently inside Expanded Access by filtering the blog for the Expanded Access tag — or click right here.

 

Join for a month or for as long as you need, and get the resources and support to help you take the confusion and frustration out of feeding time.

Go Deeper →

Feed Better. Feel Better.®

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Meet the Author. 

Hi there! I’m an IBCLC and educator with over twenty-five years of experience supporting families.

I built this space to share the kind of guidance I wish I had as a new parent—answers grounded in real-world experience, not guesswork. The kind that reflect real babies, real bodies, and the real challenges that don’t always fit the textbook. 

Because when you understand why something is happening, it’s so much easier to feel confident about what to do next.

Learn more about my story right here.